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Safety |
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Touching, skin contact |
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Attention |
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Mirroring and echoing |
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Listening |
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Being real |
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Acceptance |
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Others are aware of, take seriously and admire the Real You |
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Freedom to be the Real You |
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Tolerance of your feelings |
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Validation |
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Respect |
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Belonging and love |
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Opportunity to grieve losses and to grow |
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Support |
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Loyalty and trust |
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Accomplishment |
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Mastery, „Power,” „Control” |
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Creativity |
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Having a sense of completion |
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Making a contribution |
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Altering one’s state of consciousness, transcending the ordinary |
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Enjoyment or fun |
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Freedom |
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Nurturing |
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Unconditional love (including connection with a Higher Power)
Charles Whitfield, Healing the inner child
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